Friday, December 16, 2016

Daily Draw: Three of Swords (R)

First Impressions:  Joy, moving on

Book:  Protecting the heart, letting go of pain, forgiveness, path to recovery, accepting pain and loss and moving on

Guidance:  Letting go and move on, accept the situation

Journaling

What a perfect card to pick today.  I definitely feel like I'm moving on and letting the past go.  I've accepted that I can't help help her or change her unless she wants help and to change and it's clear she would rather sit there and whine and be passive aggressive rather than move on and get help.

She is so insecure that she can't contemplate being wrong because it would shatter her self image.  I feel so much empathy because I used to be like that.  If anyone accused me of something or told me that I was wrong, I put my shields up.  I thought if I was wrong about anything it reflected on my worth as a person.  I've learned to let go of that and accept that I'm human.  I had to want to change.  I guess I'm also uncomfortable about confronting my m

July 1, 2018

One of the lessons that I'm learning about life is that sometimes I need to choose to let go of my need to be right in order to keep harmony.  That doesn't mean degrading myself, it just means accepting that somethings are truly not mine to control and that I need to let go of the need to control everyone to let other people have their own lives.

I'm doing that with Cam right now.  I have to let go of my need to harp on her job and to point out all the things that are wrong with her job.  Instead, I have to love and support her to the best of my ability.  

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