Thursday, November 16, 2017

Daily Draw: Five of Swords

First Impressions:  Gloating

Book:  Warrior stands victorious, Cost of Winning was not worth it

Guidance:  Determine what was lost and what was gained.  Was it worth it?  More conciliatory approach

Journaling

Interesting reading on this card.  For me this read is about winning at all costs.  I love to be right and it sometimes leads me down bad path.  My gloating over losing Hood because we chose not to include OCM in the proposal was not good.  I need to accept that the person who chose that was an idiot.

November 20, 2017

It's nice to be able to remind myself to take a step back.  I've become so much better at self regulation.

October 30, 2018

This is still something that I need to work on.  I've realized that one of the things I really need to work on is letting go of both winning and losing.  Gloating isn't good, but moping when I lose isn't good either.  I think that kids who participate in sports have an easier time of this because you need to shake it off and move to the next thing.  I was thinking about this when I was watching a hockey game with the kids.  If the other team gets a goal, you can't sit and mope over it.  You have to shake it off or you will never recover.

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