Saturday, May 18, 2019
Deliberate Draw: Four of Swords
Book: Retreat, seclusion guarded by three swords, need for rest
Guidance: Now is the time to heal through solitude and reflection. Learn how to better balance your ideas with reality. An honest evaluation of your part in the drama is key to your growth
What I love about this image is that she is laying on her side and appears very much at peace and very restful. You can also see her horse grazing in the background while she sleeps. This card tells me that it is time for me to put myself first and to take time for solitude and reflection. It is time for me to let go of the outside world and to let myself reflect on what is going on in my life and where I'm going. What's interesting for me is that I have been doing a lot of that lately, especially reflecting on my part in the drama and what I could have done differently. One of the key messages that I've been receiving lately is that I need to commit. I need to commit to jobs, I need to commit to the World Spirit Tarot deck, and I need to commit to myself.
I was let go from a job nine years ago right after my husband decided to leave me because I had totally flaked out and was unable to function. I felt lost and abandoned and ever since that time I've had a problem committing to jobs. I've always found something wrong with a position around the two year point and started looking. As I reflect on that situation, I realize that I was afraid. My husband left me after 22 years and it had become really difficult for me to trust people, especially people who held my financial future in their hands. I never let myself get comfortable in jobs and I also believe that's part of the reason that I'm a consultant as it means I am jumping from project to project all the time. However, my guides have been very clear that I need to commit. I need to quit analyzing and finding fault and commit to my job. The funny thing is that the job I'm in right now was CREATED FOR ME. No one else has ever held this job and it was created because the company believed that I had skills they needed. When I take a step back, I realize they have committed to me and it's me who is having commitment issues. I've decided to commit to my job and when I start to get antsy, I take a step back and recommit. The interesting thing is that when I allow myself to do that, I am able to see all the good things at work and to see how valued I am.
My guides have also told me I need to commit to one tarot deck for a while instead of dating a whole bunch of different decks. One of my key spiritual practices for the past four years has been pulling a card a day from a tarot deck. I've done one deck for a month, then switched to a different deck. It has really helped me to learn tarot and learn the nuances of the deck. However, my guides have said that the time for dating is over and it's time for me to commit. The question they asked me is how I could expect a person to commit to me if I wasn't able to commit? It's a fair question and my first defensive response was to say that I am committed to my family and my dogs. They're telling me that that is not enough so I will be working with the World Spirit Tarot for the foreseeable future.
Committing to my job and to the World Spirit Tarot are part of the bigger commitment to myself. I need to take myself seriously and learn to open my heart and follow my dreams. That's tough as I've spent most of my life being committed to other people and now I'm realizing that in committing to other people I let go of myself. I need to find my way back to balance and the ability to commit to myself and other people instead of taking care of others at the expense of myself. That's hard because I have a tendency to say yes to everyone, but I'm learning that it is okay to say no and that it is also okay to ask for help. I'm also learning to put my own hopes and dreams first and that's hard sometimes. I enrolled in a Masters program in January and there are times when I am tempted to not do my homework because someone else needs me, but when I feel tempted I remind myself of how much I'm paying for the class and that helps.
Committing to my health and taking time to rest and recuperate is also a big part of my new found commitment to myself. I was raised, like I'm sure a lot of you were, with the mandate that sleeping in meant you were lazy, that relaxing instead of doing something was lazy, etc, etc. However, I've learned that there is serious value in being "lazy" because it allows us to recharge our batteries. One of the best decisions I ever made was to buy a personal laptop and stop using my work laptop for everything. I even travel with my personal laptop and that means when I turn off the work laptop, I'm done with work. No more watching TV and checking email. When I'm done with work, the work laptop goes off and I'm done. I'm also committing to going to bed at a reasonable hour and not working all night.
Previous Blog | Master List | Next Blog Introduction As the heat of the summer bears down upon us, our wrangler Jay Cassels gave us ...
PREVIOUS BLOG | MASTER LIST | NEXT BLOG For our Tarot Blog Hop this Samhain, I'd like to share my ritual to honor my Grandma Elda wh...
Prior Blog | Master List | Next Blog For this Tarot Blog Hop, our fearless Wrangler Maureen Aisling Duffy-Boose asked us to contemplate t...
Type of Spreads: Daily Draws Time Frame: September 10, 2016 to October 8, 2016 Overall Rating: 😎😎😎😎😎 Theme: This deck f...
PREVIOUS BLOG | MASTER LIST | NEXT BLOG Welcome to the Mabon Blog Hop. I'm super excited to be participating in this hop beca...
Previous | Master Link | Next Welcome to the Imbolc Blog Hop. Our fearless wrangler, Morgan Drake Eckstein, has tasked us to come up w...
First Impressions: Emotional control Book: Fortunate in your achievements, there are things in your life that give you satisfaction ...