Dark Goddess Question: What is being sacrificed?
|Tarot de St. Croix|
Dark Goddess First Impressions: Oh no, how can I be sacrificing love
Book: Linked in a union of love, two hearts complimenting one another
Dark Goddess Book: Faithless love, sacrificing yourself, eternal desire
Guidance: Celebrate love
|Dark Goddess Tarot|
My initial reading of this was that I was being asked to sacrifice my desire for love which sent me into a very dark place as it made me feel that the gods were telling me that I was not worthy of love. However, I also know that this is a very touchy subject for me and that I had to sit with the card for a bit and figure out what it was trying to to tell me. As I've reflected and meditated on this card over the last few days, I'm realizing that what I'm being asked to sacrifice is not my desire for love, but the walls that I've put up to keep me from opening my heart to love. I look around my office / meditation room which has goddess art on the walls and is where I am most at home and I realize when I look at the book piled around that I've barricaded myself and put up so many barriers to protect my heart that there is no way in the current circumstances I can truly be open to love. And it isn't just the physical barriers either, I've also got a crazy job that keeps me way too busy and I'm in school so there is no time for love.
Lorelei asks me to be honest with myself about I yearn for and what I want in my life and I'm realizing that I need to define what I want in order to define it. I spent the first 50 years of my life believing that I was nothing if I was not in a relationship and I've spent the last three years realizing that I am pretty amazing by myself and that I do not need someone else to validate my right to exist. However, with the realization that I'm okay just the way I am has come a fear of losing that self love by entering into a relationship. My marriage was disastrous and in some ways I lost my soul and I am terrified of that happening again. I do not think I could survive.
Interestingly enough, a few days before I drew this card, I pulled the Two of Swords from Tarot de St. Croix and the message there was all about putting down my swords and opening my heart. Those are difficult messages for me as I'm really afraid of being hurt and the only surefire way that I know to protect myself is to keep my shields up. However, that keeps me trapped in the eight of swords prison and that's not where I want to be.
I'm grateful for getting my paper done
I'm grateful for having a low key day
I'm grateful for getting a small walk in
I'm grateful for the beautiful weather
I'm grateful for the good weekend with Cam