|Tarot de St. Croix |
Two of Swords
Book: Looking within to decide whether to continue to protect herself or put down her swords and open herself to something new
Guidance: A choice needs to be made
I love the reading on this card as it seems like I always have my swords up, I don't seem to be able to let down my guard and let people in. I also am realizing that I hold in a lot of pain and I don't seem to be able to let it out. I also like to be the hero and that hurts me a lot as it means I give up time with my family and my baby doggie to go and rescue people who have gotten themselves into jams. The thing is I have had my swords up and my shields up for so long that I don't know how to let them down and let people in. I really want to have people in my life who care about me, but that's hard to do when I work this crazy funky job where I travel all the time. I also know that the work and school are distractions that make me feel worthwhile. It seems hard to believe that I am worthy just for being me.
It's interesting that as I started to write this, my shields went up and I didn't even want to go back to the cards as it seemed too painful and too emotional. I've also been reading about breathing meditations and how they ask you to sit with the pain and let it flow. That is hard for me as I've learned that when I start jumping from window to window or thing to thing that there is something that I'm avoiding and this card hit me in the pit of my stomach and that means that I like to think I've let go of the pain and that I'm open to love that I'm really not. There is still a part of me that feels unworthy of love and that feels as if I have to have my shields up to prevent people from seeing how unworthy I really am. It makes me sad that there is a part of me that feels that way and I'm not sure how to reach that little girl deep inside me and comfort her and hold her and tell her that all the people that said mean things were wrong.
I think I need to go back to the inner child meditation and spend some time comforting that scared little girl inside of me. I've done some of that work, but it seems that it is
I'm grateful my flight was on time
I'm grateful for the good convo with Tom
I'm grateful for the red jeep
I'm grateful Sean arrived safely
I'm grateful that my hotel is quiet
I'm grateful for the Portillos